A lot of people – myself included – never ask. They think about asking. They imagine the conversation, have it in their mind a dozen times. Each time answering for the other person until it seems pointless to ask because the conversation has already happened.
Only it hasn’t.
Well, today I asked. And I got an answer; a real one. It wasn’t the one I wanted, but I have it and now I can move on. Move on to the next question, and ask that one, too